Sadia, You are sweet to notice. BTW the answer to ur inquiry is; “Niether!” I’m an all rounder, well traveled and always been relocated between the hemispheres of Earth, and still am! My life has been a split between East & west…North and now perhaps South in near future:-)
Alrighty** Bharysh** back to you! I’m hoping u don’t end up to be a road kill on this information highway u’ve just ventured into with ur distress call chuckles So many ppl, coming from such diverse experiences will give you their opinions. Some which utterly make no sense at all. So be careful whom you decide to in tune into :-)
I can help you for real. That is if you let me and want to trust me. I can give you a few numbers of people in Pakistan, that are trust worthy, and you can talk to them and give them the description of the guy/family you are looking for. They will run a closer match search and will recruit a family knocking at your door. I know the scam level in scenario as such. But so far these have been the honest ones and well known (Lahore/Islamabad). There will be some info required that you need to give me. I know I might have risked the chance of freaking you out a bit, by writing the above. Cuz I believe we never have interacted on personal level other than an occasional bump or two on Gup. Hayaa knows me very well and can vouch that I’m ok ;-)
I really want to write out an entire page especially stomping out a few guppy advices here that are just so dead wrong! Although let me just tell you simply this Bharaysh. Waiting for someone to show up is futile. One has gotta risk putting in some damn good effort when it comes to achieving a dream so important. God knows it took me quite a while before who I was looking for finally arrived. Late of course (on his side), but nonetheless better than never eh! Also let me tell you, nothing in this life is perfect. It’s the essence of this very aberration that we are on this planet.
Don’t put off something on hold or tie yourself down while waiting for something that doesn’t even exists in your reality at the moment. Because what you may able to do now independently will become challenging after marriage. I’m not trying to scare u. Afterwards, you will be required to do everything on bases of compromise, sacrifice, undivided attention towards the expectations of your homely life yar. Its hard sometimes to make the time out for yourself. Its better to be prepared in every regard while entering a married life, minimized the chances of screwing up. Sometimes just little things may be turned into disasters. Just ask yourself are you prepared in every regard, willing even to give up everything you have at the moment and completely spend your life on the wishes of another… for you never know what’s in store. Besides who knows what you maybe looking for may only happen if you continue with your own life rather than this waiting period u’ve decided to rest your horses at. Do not limit yourself. Do not limit yourself. How many times do you want me to point that out eh?
I hope my reply here isn’t too depressing. I certainly am not aiming for putting u off, just trying to help. Oh and whoever said that “trying too hard for something is unachievable or wanting something too bad runs far away from u,” is incorrect. For I worked my butt off on anything I’ve ever wanted and have always gotten it. Ofcourse after a thoroughly perplexed struggle. The point here is, how badly you do want it is what matters. Are you willing to give up soon if something u want really really bad isn’t under your nose? Like I said, let the sky be your limit! Besides its never too late really if your life is still ticking. Better live fully once according to your own desires than rather be bent and shriveled under the pressure of outer forces. The choice only lies with you solely to decide. Use it wisely while you can.
Sincerely, DB
ps. Ahem, yes I agree with you. There are some ducks here, quacking out lame gibrish.
