Getting Married - good or bad?

[sharklaser2]

Re: Getting Married - good or bad?

@Exodus

Broseph, you’re making it all a whole load more difficult for yourself and for no apparent reason. If you wanna get married, go ahead, seek potentials, talk it out, find a mutual compatibility ground and work on it. Nobody could give you a guarantee it will work out perfectly fine. You’ve just gotta take the risk if you’re willing. To top that off, she’s going to be doing the same, perhaps on a bigger sacrificial scale than you could ever. You just cant predict it all down to a tee. You’ve gotta bite the bullet/take a risk.

True, I guess I can’t seem to get it out of my head that her main aim will be to cause chaos to me and in our house/family and ruin my perfectly peaceful life as that’s all I have seen of married life.

Annoyingly we haven’t been a complete family for a long time, and I struggle to remember how my parents interacted daily too, nor do we have any relatives etc.