Getting Married - good or bad?

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Re: Getting Married - good or bad?

@sharklaser2

True, although I guess different people are attracted to different things I couldn’t imagine anything worse than someone marrying you for the way you look, what happens if your face gets eaten by a scary face eating insect overnight, boom there goes your “marriage”.

I’m becoming less inclined to compromise now, as there’s a chance it will all be thrown in my face afterwards, and all that work for nothing.

People don’t get married ONLY for looks ever. There are many many many other factors that go in there but a certain degree of attraction is there too. You cannot tell me you are ONLY looking for inner beauty because the reality of this is…you have no way of gauging that inner beauty right off the bat. We look for outer beauty instinctively and then go for the rest. Once we find other qualities…we take a risk and get married. Its a gamble no matter what.

@Exodus

Broseph, you’re making it all a whole load more difficult for yourself and for no apparent reason. If you wanna get married, go ahead, seek potentials, talk it out, find a mutual compatibility ground and work on it. Nobody could give you a guarantee it will work out perfectly fine. You’ve just gotta take the risk if you’re willing. To top that off, she’s going to be doing the same, perhaps on a bigger sacrificial scale than you could ever. You just cant predict it all down to a tee. You’ve gotta bite the bullet/take a risk.

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