Getting back with ex-husband

Okay I know only minor details about how to go about doing that. Correct me if I am wrong but you need to marry someone else, have sex with them and then divorce that person and then you can marry your first husband again right?

Well my strictly religious and serious question is, no jokes or anything. If you are going to have sex, wouldn’t there be a chance you get pregnant? If you get pregnant then how can u divorce that guy and get back together with your ex? So um u use protection or something when having sex with the guy because you are essentially just doing it to fulfil what Islam says before getting back with ur EX?

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No...I was watching one tv show where they said In Islam there is nothing like HALALA Means like u have to marry someone to remarry your husband

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Whattt but I have always been told and I have always read that you have to do that :/

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another technique i've heard people exploit is that they temporarily convert to another religion which nulls their marriage then re-accept Islam. this way they dont have to have sex with anyone else.

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No…the Molvi says theres nothing like that :S…

Lets see may be someone comeup with some hadeeh or ayat :hmmm:

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Ravage omg that's cool! However if I tell me mum I am converting to some other religion albeit temporarily she is going to kill me.

Kinzz which Maulvi? Are you sure? :/ I have read in all books etc and my mum always told me this is how it is done.

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Marrying someone with intention of divorce is makrooh so many school of thoughts declare it forbidden. Hanafi school of thought permits it with the rational that to save the original marriage, makrooh should be ok, so halala is permitted.

Now to answer Aisha's original question, I think that it should be ok to take birth control measures but the girl still has to weight 4 months and 10 days before re-marrying the original hubby

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Dr Zakir Naik... and i remember he gave some refrence too..

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Can you avoid taking fatwas from Zakir Naik, please.

I dont remember which ones are we. We are Wahabi or Hanafi Sunni. :/ Mum told me but I forgot. I tihnk it is Hanafi then since Hanafi permits Halala.

SO if you are going to marry someone in order to marry ur first husband again, u should obv tell them that it is temporary marriage right or u shouldnt?

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@ TLK Bro..

Hain? You too? Uff what wrong with him? Are you too taking fwd mail serious? :smack:

Why what's wrong with Zakir Naik, not that I am a big fan of his.

Off course it should be with mutual understanding

he is not even a qualified aalim. maybe he is good Daa’ee (preecher) but he is no mufti.

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^ Ok If he not mufti or a aalim deen...I never see anythhing wrong with whatever he say...He give information about Islam...He is doing good work...

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What if the guy loves you or something, gets attached to you! How can you leave someone after having sex with them! That’s absurd. This is why it is hard to get back with your first husband! :smack:

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I always thought you only had to marry another man, not actually sleep with him, before remarrying your ex ...

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No you have to sleep with another man and then divorce him in order to get back with your first husband.

How do you know that his information is awlays authentic when you admit that he is not mufti or alim. Will you take medical info from anyone just because you never saw that person saying anything wrong or will you go to a medical doctor for that?

no, you have to consummate the marriage.

it happened to my husbands khala too and thats exactly how it was done.

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Oh ok. So sorry to be personal but did she use protection or something? I am a bit confused. This is why opened this thread.