That used to be me, with not as much guilt because I felt justified when I let it out. Though, I don’t think I got too mean while in anger, but I used to hold it in until I was ready to blow up.
Then I lost a friend…
I realized that I should have been more assertive about her sarcasm and told her to cut it out every time it happened. It is because of my patience that I rarely said anything and ended up getting so frustrated that I didn’t want to deal with it anymore.
I am still working on it. And thankfully, enough, I don’t have that kind of people to deal with anymore, who I actually have to stand up to.