Reha, you are married, its quiet obvious that you know more about this than I do, no arguments there. But that doesnt mean I cant have any views on this topic, especially after having witnessed a couple of lone parents.
I have said this a thousand times, I UNDERSTAND why someone would move away if in laws are irrational, I UNDERSTAND that people would want to leave if there are privacy issues (i.e the house is small, there are too many people, you dont have a separate floor to yourself etc).
If you get married, you will have more responsibilities, your wife and kids will be your responsibility, but that doesnt absolve you from the responsibilities you have towards your parents.
Just handing some cash to your parents (if they need it), and dropping by once or twice a month to check on them isnt enough.
And I am pretty sure you all are much better human beings than I am. Apologies if I sound self righteous or something.