Getting a place of your own

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Getting a place of your own

@Shak

1. Why is unfathomable that even a guy would want more privacy or have a house that him and his wife could truly call their own?

The privacy part hits home but if the house is really huge and family isnt prying the kind then it doesnt make sense.

@Shak

3. Why do kids have to live with their parents for them to enjoy them? Why can’t people have healthy loving relationships otherwise? Some elders in my own family did not recommend joint system to their kids because of their own terrible experiences, sometimes it has nothing to do with the guy being forced and everything to do with how each situation is different.

Both systems can work depending on the people, I know some people (including guppies here on GS) who have had a great time in joint system while for others it was horrid. One set of people are not necessarily being forced to do anything if they don’t follow the established ‘tradition’ in our culture.

You are partially right.