Getting a place of your own

[Shak]

Re: Getting a place of your own

@geminifromkhi

Agree with most of the things yo said but:

1. Obviously guys leave because of their wives, unless they have issues with their parents or need to move for reasons like job/studies etc.
2. Dont you think if the house is spacious, there is privacy, and most of all there are bathrooms, just imagine (seems like you guys have a shortage of bathrooms in the west), then shouldnt the dils be willing to compromise a bit and stay?
3. WHY CANT PARENTS ENJOY HAViNG THEIR KIDS AROUND WHEN THEY ARE IN GOOD SHAPE? Do they have to be sick, old, and dying to have the luxury of having their kids around?

1. Why is unfathomable that even a guy would want more privacy or have a house that him and his wife could truly call their own?
2. Bathroom thing was a tongue in cheek, don’t worry most ghars here have teen chaar latreen
3. Why do kids have to live with their parents for them to enjoy them? Why can’t people have healthy loving relationships otherwise? Some elders in my own family did not recommend joint system to their kids because of their own terrible experiences, sometimes it has nothing to do with the guy being forced and everything to do with how each situation is different.

Both systems can work depending on the people, I know some people (including guppies here on GS) who have had a great time in joint system while for others it was horrid. One set of people are not necessarily being forced to do anything if they don’t follow the established ‘tradition’ in our culture.