Getting a place of your own

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Getting a place of your own

@Shak

I think the trend is changing in terms of joint family systems, I don’t think someone leaving a house should be interpreted as if she made the guy leave. Islamically as well as far as I know its encouraged if a couple have their own pad, society frowns upon a lot of things that aren’t deserving to be frowned upon.

Ofcourse there is a time in everyone’s life when BOTH sets of parents will require support when they can no longer fend for themselves and hence will deserve to live with their kids but a couple looking to move on and have their own household shouldn’t be looked at something as taboo (not saying you are doing that ofcourse )

Agree with most of the things yo said but:

1. Obviously guys leave because of their wives, unless they have issues with their parents or need to move for reasons like job/studies etc.
2. Dont you think if the house is spacious, there is privacy, and most of all there are bathrooms, just imagine (seems like you guys have a shortage of bathrooms in the west), then shouldnt the dils be willing to compromise a bit and stay?
3. WHY CANT PARENTS ENJOY HAViNG THEIR KIDS AROUND WHEN THEY ARE IN GOOD SHAPE? Do they have to be sick, old, and dying to have the luxury of having their kids around?