Getting a place of your own

[Shak]

Re: Getting a place of your own

@geminifromkhi

A friend of mine recently shifted from her in laws home, who are also her relatives. She just had a baby too. Her MIL is really sad, even though she knew long ago that ultimately her son and dil will leave. Her MIL is really loving and caring. What should one do in such a situation without feeling like crap?

I think the trend is changing in terms of joint family systems, I don’t think someone leaving a house should be interpreted as if she made the guy leave. Islamically as well as far as I know its encouraged if a couple have their own pad, society frowns upon a lot of things that aren’t deserving to be frowned upon.

Ofcourse there is a time in everyone’s life when BOTH sets of parents will require support when they can no longer fend for themselves and hence will deserve to live with their kids but a couple looking to move on and have their own household shouldn’t be looked at something as taboo (not saying you are doing that ofcourse )