Re: Getting a place of your own
Because everyone, everyone on this planet, animal or human has a desire to have a house of their own. Even if your ILs are angels on this earth, let’s face it, it’s not YOUR house. It’s your saas and susar’s. It’s a house that the susar “built” with his hands, and the saas decorated it with hers. Why is it wrong for a woman in our society then to want the same thing? To call a house of her own then, to treat it as she wants, and not feel like a permanent guest holed up in one room?
Why make another mother suffer as well when she doesn’t get to see her daughter and her grandchildren? Isn’t she a maa as well? If you have a family situation like Reha or Khattchic, where there are only daughters in that family, does that mean that that mother doesn’t get any sahara at all? She’s meant to live a life of loneliness then?
Isn’t it better then to have everyone living independently in their own houses, as long as they’re capable of doing that?
If I am speaking for something, doesnt mean I am speaking against the other. I know people like Reha or Khattichic who have kept their parents with them. This isnt a war or something. If its possible for you to live with parents then do, if its not then move away.