Getting a place of your own

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Getting a place of your own

@khattichic

You’re still missing the point here lol. For those of us who do not live in Pakistan/India and whose families have not for at least a generation or two the scenarios Reha and I have shown of independent and active women are not exceptions to the rule, but rather the norm now. I honestly can count on one hand the number of joint family scenarios that I know of here. And there is nothing wrong with that. Nor is there anything wrong with families who choose to go the joint living route. It’s a personal preference. Why are you so hell bent on making it negative and injust?

Like I said before, I think it would be great if all women were like that. And refer to my previous posts, I have given the example of a relative who works, yet she still misses her kids when she come backs home. Not that she ever complained, but we all can sense it.

And sorry if it came across like that, thats not what I meant. I am only saying that if you can continue living with inlaws, if they are nice people who arent bothering you, why leave? Why make a mother suffer just because her focus was only on her kids? Can she go back and make changes in her life?