One of my friends got told she isn’t allowed to go home for a visit and when the argument escalated it turned into the dude saying his parents are more important than hers. That is literally the Pakistani mentality. And the guy does not spend free time with his parents. At all. It’s like he got a wife to be a surrogate for him. Another lady I know gets so much flack for sending her parents money that she earns herself from her inlaws. The guy’s parents are special pretty butterflies mentality is so prevalent. It’s attitude like this is why female infanticide happens in Pakistan. Create unequal, unislamic situations and people will find unislamic solutions. It’s that simple.