Re: Getting a place of your own
Good for her. I’m at that age where half the people are married and half are not so it’s really freaky to see mothers without a single activity beyond their kids. No interests, not even dastarkhwan walay shows. It’s these type of people who will just wither away. In my family once you hit 50 vacations with husband, house riding, painting, fashion designing all begin because these women have been waiting for ages for their kids to become independent so they can start having fun again. My mother is accumulating art supplies for after I get married. Lmao. Like we don’t spend so much time together in the first place do its not like I’m stopping her or anything but she’s making plans. I will not be surprised if she takes a solo foreign trip somewhere.
Ps: I did suddenly remember my phupi (okay don’t laugh guys. She’s a really nice lady) who doesn’t go out of the house so for her it would hell on earth to live alone. The first time her son went out to eat out with his new wife she called up my dad to complain because she couldn’t understand why anyone wanted to eat out and how it wasn’t normal. My dad had to make her promise she wasnt going to say anything when they came back home. She lives in a small town so I get why someone like her could choke living alone.