maam, I can see where watching too much American TV can put a thought like that in your mind. Its true that you can get away with saying whatever about someones sister and mother here in the US. But, a mere sentence can land you in big trouble with a desi man.
A mere sentence is also be used to divorce you.
and i can see where watching too many pakistani punjabi movies can put a thought like THAT in your head.
i never said saying something like that is right, no wife should say that (without a reason) but if she does, her husband should reply verbally, not physically.