PS^2 - The kind of rishtas these girls are getting speaks volumes about the kind of families their families associate with. In discussions with my friends, the 'Jahez' issue has never been brought up. If the guy is secure enough in his own abilities, he doesn't need a jumpstart in life.
As for your list:
Fair skin - *not important. However, a girl must take care of herself physically.
**Long hair - *See above
**Skinny - See above
Doctor - not important. Might even be a negative
Lawyer - See above
Engineer - **See above
**Rich parents - If rich = cultured then yes; otherwise no.
Oh and the latest: Corresponding caste ???? (WTF)