ummm, i think you missed the point completely, otherwise you would not be grinning...
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I would encourage both of you to go read the specific sentences I had quoted, in the order they were quoted, and then you will understand the reason for the smile in the PS.
shabash.
@ X2: Oh NO NO, don't get me wrong.... I totally got what you were saying.
You pointed out that I too am generalizing **and that **I have a superiority complex. Thats why I laughed, why would i write "LOL" otherwise if you were supporting my opinions.... mine was a sarcastic post too .... I said good job simplifying .... and then I said "Now I'm waiting for them women too" since you're a guy ... should have probably emphasized on words. Oh well!!
Would people please stop saying "desi" and "Pakistani" in the context they keep using, its offensive the way its used, to me at least. You find jerks everywhere in all countries within all ethnicities (if thats even a word... which I dont think it is :p), why label all Pakistanis and desis the same. Lots of goraas are also Mama's boys and lots of gori MILS are also evil (ok, not with the Jahez thing but with interference in the home).
@ PSQ: I do read the news, and whats on Jeryy Springer and Maury may be fake, but its based on real life. Girls having their father's babies ewww and 37 years old teachers having affairs with 15 yrs old students.... men/women cheating on their spouses and sleeping with the half of the world.........I'm not naive enough to believe what on TV as being real, but its based on REAL LIFE incidents. And I do work in a goraa place, have been working with goraas since 5 yrs and have seen enough to know what goes on in this society in the name of women liberation and independence. I lose all my classiness when people start saying Pakistani girls are this and that... and Pakistani men are losers.
I still maintain that our issues are really petty and can be easily managed compared to what their women (goraas) go through and yes, its mostly women who come out as the losers in their setup (they lose everything, including their self-esteem and dignity).