LOL seriously do discussions like this even take place
For a husband and wife to talk like this to each other.....there is no respect left in the relationship......If a husband feels tht he needs help of a fist to quieten his wife. He is better off separating from her, as whats the point being in a unhappy relationship? all thts gonna happen is the man will continue to show his Authority an bully his wife.... which will lead to the wife showing hatred towards her husband
Or let the atmosphere settle and let both parties acknowledge their wrong doings and talk it over like mature adults
no guesses for what ur approach will be :)