Re: Get to know him
I am sorry to say but you're an example of a girl who has come to North America and forgotten her traditions and values. Now I can see why your parents don't let you stay out late. You're exactly the type of girl I was reffering to. Sara bibi, choose your mate very carefully; Khuda na kasta if you're stuck with a mian bhai, things could get ugly (Allah na karay).
Coming back to New York would be a good idea for you because staying in lahore (assuming thats where you are now), this type of attitude will not fly.