^X2, thats the perfect advice. The very best thing to put the spark back in the marriage. You dont even need lots of money - go camping! If you HAVE the money, spend the night in a motel, go to a show or movie and a nice dinner. Do something completely different, out of the ordinary. All the other daily tasks, trials and tribulations can wait for 24 hours!
So like Nike says, "Just DO it!"
i believe in it, in the middle of brutal winter, with workload at a massive level, no one around to help us with kids at all, kids taking a lot of time with their needs and appoitnments, we sometimes did really really small stuff, like meet up at a cafe down the street from the kids day care, have a coffee and a scone, st and talk about our day week, whats going on, any things coming up that we want to look into, play a board game..i mean jst 45 minutes of that and it just meant so much.