Hi
how can I get romance back in my married life?
any tips
experiences
suggestions etc
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You might want to open this thread in the life & relationships forum...
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i think this is just sad
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^ What is?
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sorry aana.. noteveryone is fortunate to have a perfect life. some people actualy like to ask for advice online… woe is they. 
ladies I am not unhappy with my life i just want add some more joy and happiness , excitement in my life thats it thats why I am asking this :)
Yeh... i dont see how this is sad. I think it should be talked about just think that this isnt the right forum to discuss it.
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BTW im newly married and cant really speak from experience. but ive heard that spontaneity helps,. and if that doesnt work make time in ur schedules for each other, set time aside for each other like schedule a walk by the river for just the two of you where you both can talk/communicate instead of watching a movie at home where u both really wont be talking to each other.
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How do you add romance in your life, if your husband/boyfriend/fianceee etc just way to comfortable in the relationship?!?!? Its a good thing to be comfortable, i guess in some ways you can say he's relaxed cuase he's found the one! But it gets boring, how do u add romance then?
Send him cute txt's! Dress-up nice for him.. make his favorite things and do things out of the ordinary! It's routine that makes everything monotonous and boring.
Take-up an activity together maybe? Have a night out together once a week..
Boys! Answer her..
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what if the husband is already satisfied with everything like someone said earlier?i have tried explaining to hubby the importance of presents,timeout,walks,etc many a times but he doesn't think these things are needed or important.. :(
Meet up after work in an unfamiliar place, like a different town, for dinner, or watch a film / go for a walk, followed by dinner.
Hi..my advice would be..like a lot off ppl have already mentioned, do more things together. go out for dinner, walks, etc. also i would recommend giving each other some reasonable amount of space so u dont get bored with the other person. and other than that mayb cook together, try new things together tat u or he hasn't tried before. i hope it helps.
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Dress up for him
have a candle light dinner at home
leave him notes or cards when he isnt expecting them
I know its hard to not actually say why you are doing what you are doing but treat the dressing up as if you just wanted to do it for no particular reason. Know what i mean? Dont pressurise him to do the same for you.
Both of these posts of yours do not tells us what is missing from your life exactly. You say you are happy , you want more of happiness ? Confusing 
From many responses above it seems like you are looking to make yourself more attractive to your husband. I do not think this is what you are looking for.
Does your husband show any signs of boredom ? You feel bored with routine of your life ?
Do You guys not do any fun activities together like watch a movie , read a book and discuss, go out for picnics , vacations , dine out , opera , museums , theaters , comedy shows. Don’t you sit and talk every now and then ? Do you have kids ? Do you pray namaz as a family unit ? Do you listen to some good Isalmic lecture and discuss. Do you invite others and go to visit other friends and family ? Do you guys have hobbies and discuss your hobbies ? If you do not have common interests then do you show interest in other party’s interest ?
Please remember married life is not a picnic it needs content maintenance and co operation of both spouces.
Here are some articles to read.
nzgirl - Has the romance gone flat?
This is a good site for married romance.
Married Romance
A good read :
A Happy Married Life
What does he think is important than those things ?
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Get yourself a very sharp and updated haircut/color.
Start dressing a little differently around the house - wear pretty things inside.
Change the way you look every so often so he can see you with fresh eyes.
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explore things together, have new experiences together, go see some play, go to some concert, take a roadtrip.
and make time that is just for the two of you
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^X2, thats the perfect advice. The very best thing to put the spark back in the marriage. You dont even need lots of money - go camping! If you HAVE the money, spend the night in a motel, go to a show or movie and a nice dinner. Do something completely different, out of the ordinary. All the other daily tasks, trials and tribulations can wait for 24 hours!
So like Nike says, "Just DO it!"
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nothing much u can do if your partner is not showing ANY Interest... i will say, find a boyfriend :P
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u cant bring romance with ppls suggstions its between u two....always share even small things...notice wot makes him happy.... cook somthing special juz for him....n try to spend most of ur time with him....