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Here is the source
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on the contrary, women have created enough problem to dissolve the family in the west. It's a fact and Women Lib is all for it - our women are getting the disease too :)
:)yes because women have rights now and they have freedom. Maybe you should try staying home and looking after the children. It's just that before women were expected to be seen, not heard. They've gotten a voice now. You're just another ignorant male. And if freedom and liberty were a disease..then heck everybody has it.
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That word ‘NOW’ is wrong… Women were given rights and Freedom by the Prophet:saw:
Western society simply lowered the status of women - something people call it respect, is actually a ‘use’ of the noble gender who have made history all over Islamic era.
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Everything looks good on paper. There’s a difference between giving rights..and having them. Don’t go blaming the west..maybe you should look at Islamic countries. Look at Pakistan..do you know how hard it is for a woman to get a divorce. I agree that most of the time women file for divorce and did you ever think of why they might do that?..Men have to be doing something to cause women to want a divorce. How do people say it in urdu (ugh pata nahi)..it’s something like…you clap with two hands..not one..
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There is no country as ISLAMIC as we speak.. so argument does not hold any water and offtopic as well
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There is no country as ISLAMIC as we speak.. so argument does not hold any water and offtopic as well
whatever
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Everything looks good on paper. There's a difference between giving rights..and having them. Don't go blaming the west..maybe you should look at Islamic countries. Look at Pakistan..do you know how hard it is for a woman to get a divorce. I agree that most of the time women file for divorce and did you ever think of why they might do that?..Men have to be doing something to cause women to want a divorce. How do people say it in urdu (ugh pata nahi)..it's something like...you clap with two hands..not one..
Exactly, what percentage of women in Islamic countries have the freedom and rights given by Prophet pbuh. Atleast over here state makes sure that women are given their basic rights, if not more...
In urdu they say... tali aik hath say nahin, donon hathon say bajti hai.
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There is no country as ISLAMIC as we speak.. so argument does not hold any water and offtopic as well
then why compare?
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What happened to freedom of speech and expression?
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What happened to freedom of speech and expression?
:(you still believe in that?..
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^^ they are comparing oranges with apples...
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:(you still believe in that?..
You better...Isn't that why Iraq was invaded and hundreds of thousands have died? Saddam didn't give freedom of speech and expression? Or was it WMDs...One of the two...
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Why divorce is common now a days because girls are more educated, they have freedom, they are independent, they have more choices and especially in the USA society give them protection and opportunity to make their life what ever as they want. compramizing, understanding, tolerance, love, care and respect who cares...there are plenty of guys out there dump him and get the new one...why have to suffer.
whoever said marriage was about suffering, misery. and if thats all there is, inspite of having tried, you would expect someone to get up and move on, right?
btw, this line-- "life is short, get divorce"...there's something quite funny sounding about it. mamaof3 is right, it's just a message conveyed badly.
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You better...Isn't that why Iraq was invaded and hundreds of thousands have died? Saddam didn't give freedom of speech and expression? Or was it WMDs...One of the two...
there were a lot of things that Saddam didnt allow..however this isnt about that..freedom of speech is a joke..
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Statistically marriage causes a significant health decline in women, and an incline in men. Single women are happier than single men. And no I did not make this up, maybe the 2nd part but not the first.
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Just to expound a bit on what ms aishaa said....if you think about it, in a "typical/idealistic" marriage, the hubby goes out to his white-collar job. He strives to excel and therefore earn more but also to challenge himself - physically and/or mentally so that the job is always interesting and he is always challenged.
The wife is home with the littles and days are ever the same. The daily tasks do not really change, the challenge is to make a better meal, get potty training accomplished, teach the littles a new word or how to say their address.
There are vast differences between men and women which I think we are all mature enough to admit. But being a stay-home mommy or an "ideal" wife takes a huge amount of effort which is typically not recognized - esp by the guys. I mean, nothing we do is all that DIFFICULT yeah? Its just that year after year, week after week, it gets a bit wearing on the mamas just by the monotony of it all and the endlessness of it all....ok so vacuum the house and looks nice. an hour later, boys tread in dirt and mud, cat and dogs shed and voila, back to square one.
Dont get me wrong, I'm not complaining. I have what I want, prepared myself for it as best I could and knew full well what I was getting into. I'm just saying that its really more difficult to do it successfully than it is to have a successful career.
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Oh I agree 100%, stay at home mom..(or dad) is the hardest job. You're never appreciated enough, and nothing you do is ever enough. I mean who wouldn't find it satisfying to change poo all day
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Statistically marriage causes a significant health decline in women, and an incline in men. Single women are happier than single men. And no I did not make this up, maybe the 2nd part but not the first.
I am sure you have impeccable source to back up your argument. Please provide a reference of your not so scientific study....otherwise it is just some musing from a teenager.
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I think you should just take my word for it broham
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heck i dont wanna go googling it all but think about it....a guy gets a wife and then he can happily go off to work knowing that he's getting a home-cooked meal at nite instead of a beer and a bag-of-chips (bachelor dinner). Is HIS health improving? Me thinks so! He gets "IT" when he wants so is his stress level improving? Again yup! He plays with the littles till they smell like sheet or look vomit-y then the little gets handed to the mama...
Hey!! I wanna be reincarnated as a man man.