Gentlemen

[Niksik]

Don't mods edit the swear words?

Thanks hareem. Next time just send me or one of the mods here a PM.

[_H_NK]

@Decent_6Chora

There are 2 possibilities after this situation (as per Indian movies)

1. You will find the real father, apnee BV ka hath uss k hath main thama ker, you will lay down on train track and will be squashed by Delhi-Express

2. You wills tart treating your kid and wife very badly …so much that they will commit suicide leaving you a letter that will bring ganga-jamna of tears in your eyes. Letter will state something to the effect that you are a stupid guy that you never asked your wife about the kid. Kid was not actually your wifes but it was of wife’s lost sister etc …

pick one !

[Sara516]

It's funny. You know how many women stay if the tables are turned?

You know...life is not about tit for tat, just because one man or woman does something, doesnt mean that another man or woman should behave in a way on the behalf of, or to spite, another group.

A person should react and behave based on their own personal situation, forget what "well a woman normally would, a man normally would" thinking. with that kind of thinking, everyone loses.

[snowy_winter]

CM, sorry, this was a pointless question. Obviously the husband will be devastated, no doubt about it. Not a single man in the world would be like "chalo koi baat hani". HOW that man will REACT is completely up to the individual.

I hope and pray that if I keep my Lord happy with me, He will not test me in such a way. As long as you're doing the right thing, God willing, you won't have to cross that bridge or deal with the myriad other nonsensical questions posted on this forum everyday. People focus too much on what ifs, focus more on living a decent, righteous life, and the path will be paved for you without any bumps.

you'll be surprised to find out that guys like these are sometimes preferred and called more "open", "broad-minded" and "liberal" by some..... yuck !!!

I think the first thing that should be done shoud be to beat the crap outta her :)

[dildirani]

Re: Gentlemen

Beating the crap out of her won't change what has been done.

[diwana]

Re: Gentlemen

aahmed was right on.

If the reaction is not being devastated then one would worry about the sanity of the husband. Perhaps OP is watching too many kinky movies..!

What to do with the child is a social issue which has many different answers and options. But the common to those options would be not to separate the child from mother.

[initiator]

Re: Gentlemen

Interesting topic!

I guess if you have been treating that child as your own and beeen at it for a while, you most likely love/care for that child. So getting to know that the child wasn't yours shouldn't change much. One should keep supporting the child in whatever ways. The woman, however, shall not be spared.

[CM]

Re: Gentlemen

Turns out I have not lost my touch after all :D

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Gentlemen

Yeah, you have.

[snowy_winter]

@dildirani

Beating the crap out of her won't change what has been done.

Yeah it wouldn't solve the problem, but will probably make the husband feel better :)

[Skittlez]

Re: Gentlemen

^your thought process is DISTURBING AND DISGUSTING. Animal

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Gentlemen

snow winter has issues. Seriously.

[snowy_winter]

@SkiTTleZ

^your thought process is DISTURBING AND DISGUSTING. Animal

Yeah it is, so beat it ! I have ZERO tolerance for cheaters and their supporters.

[hareem01]

Re: Gentlemen

^It still doesn't give you the right to beat your wife.

[snowy_winter]

Re: Gentlemen

... never mind.

[Decent_6Chora]

@snowy_winter

… never mind.

Is this the reply to original topic?

[Bigboi]

Re: Gentlemen

I would be stunned. I think I would run mad and jump from the 2nd floor. Attempted suicide

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Gentlemen

Wow. Emotions are so strong here. When a guppan gets cheated on, she is told to deal with itt.

Reminder to self: purchase a saw chain prior to marriage to cut off his din-a-ling if he cheats.