I think there is something up with that whole Farhat Hashmi group. My cousin sent us the tapes too. It’s like they’re a cult or something, they were for some time really trying to sell her ideologies. Same thing as you described exactly the same. Looking down on others for not being religious enough. Anti-social behavior. Avoiding working because they think that their role is to be a nurturing mother NOT to work, although interestingly one of my relatives pointed out a story that Farhat Hashmi had this one student who was a radiologist in Pakistan, and the bewaqoof wanted to give up her career and sit at home, and Farhat Hashmi said, no, you are a female radiologist, and we need those, because the male radiologists can’t work on female patients per Islam (WTH? It’s a radiologist, not a breast surgeon). And so Farhat asked the lady not give up her job. My cousin looks down on ANYONE who works, and gave her in-laws who work a hard time. Another cousin of mine married into the same family, and she is a doctor, and my crazy cousin gave her SO MUCH TAANAY constantly comparing what a better muslim she was because she doesn’t work, and the stress the in-laws created for this girl basically cost the girl her job at Aga Khan, because they refused to take her to work. Can you believe this crap?
What is it about the Farhat Hashmi chics, why are they all so crazy? They all wear shuttle burqas and cover up their faces. You know my cousin refused to show her face to my dad, who happens to be her MAMOO. She said, it’s not appropriate, my dad was like, but I’ve known you since you were a baby and your mom is my sister, why am I suddenly na-mehram?