I used to think that women are not obliged to wear hijab in front of gays but after seeing that some gays are attracted to women, I changed my mind.
There was this gay man, a working colleague of my hubby who used to stare at me with so much interest and even my hubby noticed it and found it very funny.
How do you deal/interact with male gays? Do you consider them as normal men or totally different people who are harmless?
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If a gay guy was staring at me like that, I'd be a little freaked out and I'd tell him to get his sexual preferences examined!
And as far as the whole hijab thing, there is no question, I would never take my hijab of in front of him, because he's not my mehram.
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I used to work with this gay guy, we would always have such a laugh together, but one day he got a little too 'friendly' for my liking. I told him I wasnt a lesbian. He told me he was Bi, I told him he shouldn't be so greedy!
I think Pheobe sang a song about Homosexuals who claimed they were Bisexual in Friends. Confused individuals.
Look at Gok Wan, he claims he is gay, but I think its all fake. The way he talks about women and their bits...chi!
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Ufffffff I have nothing against gays and lesbians, but I hate bi's! These people need to get their life straight.
Ufffffff I have nothing against gays and lesbians, but I hate bi's! These people need to get their life straight.
Or bent!
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lolz....funny comments Gaia and Milly.
Gaia
I didn't get freakeed out but a bit annoyed and offended. I wanted to ask him "Do I look like a bloke to you"??? But my hubby calmed me down by saying "gays look at only extremely beautiful women"(yeah right).....lolz.
But there was this lesbo nurse who really freaked the heck out of me.
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Really?
I don't think of the gays as men at all. To me, they are just one of the gyals.
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Ms Hareem, I knew many gay male people in the past....and if they are truly gay (as opposed to being bisexual) then they do actually study females that interest them. It helps them develop the types of mannerisms that they admire. They also feel envy toward women that they particularly find attractive and want to emanate. True homosexual males arent a threat to women in any way and usually make very good, loyal friends because they dont gossip or backbite (they have been so very persecuted that they typically abhor any type of mean-spirited activity or conversation. If its a homosexual male that studies you, you should feel free to call him on it. Ask him why does he appear to study you. You'll likely have a lovely conversation about how he finds your mannerisms or looks or whatever...to be something he wishes to have.
The bisexuals though,,,they're a very varied assortment, their interest could be like the homosexuall's ... or it could be more than that. I never had troubles with homosexual males but almost invariably shied away from the bi types.
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Why did you think Hareem sister that women are not obliged to wear hijab in front of gays?
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...because they are not truly male.
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i am yet to meet a gay male who fits the stupid disney-princess stereotype mamaof3 has painted.
as for staring, anyone who stares is a bit odd - gay, straight, male, female.
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men are men what has it to do with your hijab?
well your choice anyways
...because they are not truly male.
Please explain what you mean by this?
All the gay men I have known are men.
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the question then arises, should you do hijab in front of a lesbian? 
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Mamaof3 - I have yet to meet a gay guy that fits the description you gave.
All the gays I've met have been SO fiesty and B*tichy I'd swear they were pms-ing 24/7.
Now thats one hell of a question!
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lesbians cannot make you preggers, nor do they have penises to tear up hymens with - the patriarchal honor system has no complaints against lesbians.
...because they are not truly male.
since when does a person's sexuality determine their gender? this is news to me.
men are men what has it to do with your hijab? well your choice anyways
Pardon? What the heck was that all about?
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^ oki laraai is starting..
popcorn