Ms Hareem, I knew many gay male people in the past....and if they are truly gay (as opposed to being bisexual) then they do actually study females that interest them. It helps them develop the types of mannerisms that they admire. They also feel envy toward women that they particularly find attractive and want to emanate. True homosexual males arent a threat to women in any way and usually make very good, loyal friends because they dont gossip or backbite (they have been so very persecuted that they typically abhor any type of mean-spirited activity or conversation. If its a homosexual male that studies you, you should feel free to call him on it. Ask him why does he appear to study you. You'll likely have a lovely conversation about how he finds your mannerisms or looks or whatever...to be something he wishes to have.
The bisexuals though,,,they're a very varied assortment, their interest could be like the homosexuall's ... or it could be more than that. I never had troubles with homosexual males but almost invariably shied away from the bi types.
i kinda agree with you......we didn't get any chance to have a conversation neither my hubby could ask him, he got hired by Gucci and my hubby moved to oil n gas from fashion industry.
Why did you think Hareem sister that women are not obliged to wear hijab in front of gays?
i don't think that anymore........i didn't know the difference between homosexuals and hermaphrodites and i believe many girls in pakistan still don't know this difference.
i don't think that anymore........i didn't know the difference between homosexuals and hermaphrodites and i believe many girls in pakistan still don't know this difference.
Hermaphrodites = any living entity possessing both male and female reproductive organs. (eg. earthworms)
Homosexuals = males or females, sexually attracted to the same gender as themselves
Hermaphrodites = any living entity possessing both male and female reproductive organs. (eg. earthworms)
Homosexuals = males or females, sexually attracted to the same gender as themselves
lesbians cannot make you preggers, nor do they have penises to tear up hymens with - the patriarchal honor system has no complaints against lesbians.
lesbians can't make you pregnant but they still check you out. i've always been taught that you can get gunnah for (sexually) attracting someone..and i guess that would include lesbians
Sure if it's about and OUTFIT she once wore.. go right ahead!
I'd feel stupid and shameless by doing that. I respect your mother though i never met her and I have nothing personal against you, if you find something bitter or rude then feel free to tell me straight away instead of finding a chance to mock at me.
I used to think that women are not obliged to wear hijab in front of gays but after seeing that some gays are attracted to women, I changed my mind.
There was this gay man, a working colleague of my hubby who used to stare at me with so much interest and even my hubby noticed it and found it very funny.
How do you deal/interact with male gays? Do you consider them as normal men or totally different people who are harmless?
There's a difference between "gay" and bisexual. If an individual is bisexual, then he/she can be attracted to members of BOTH genders.
"Women are not obliged to wear hijab in front of gays?"......If you follow the rule/principle that you shouldn't show your hair to non-mahram males...then what is the confusion here? Whether he is gay or not doesn't matter.........if he's a guy that is not your immediate relative....and falls into the non-mahram category...........then you cover your hair. I don't do hijab, but at the same time......I don't recall any exception to wearing hijab around non-mahram men of various sexual orientations.
A person (male or female) can stare at one for various reasons. It might be due to attraction.........but then again.......it might be some other reason. If you are that bothered by this guy's staring, then you have the option of either ignoring him or talking to him about it. You can nicely say, "Excuse me, but I've seen you looking at me several times and it's making me feel a bit uneasy. Is everything okay?" If you don't plan on talking to the guy to solve the problem, then you might as well ignore it.
How do I deal with gay males? If they respect me, I respect them. One does not have to agree with another's opinions/views/lifestyles to be respectful and courteous. Homosexuality is not a lifestyle I condone, but as far as interacting with people is concerened..............there is more to an individual than their sexual orientation. One might differ in that regard...........but as human beings.........we are all similar in many ways because we have the same basic needs.
