naturally i was on the bus.. headin back home.. these 2 gay guys sittin next to me talkin and all… and this woman sittin on my other side… the way the 2 guys were acting and talking.. i just couldnt help wondering… why do gay men… who are gay.. not drag queen wannabes.. just gay.. that is all.. why do they feel the need to express emselves in such a feminine way? i mean ure gay.. ok .. can’t u be gay and still be a man? why the need to wave ure hands bout and say "ooohhhhh… " and “ahhhhhh” and “i mean u knowwwwww… like ooooo” i mean why?
i have this customer who comes in with his main man… and the customer acts all girly wirly… whlist his bf is all hacho macho.. so is this bout one party being all ruff tuff and the other one a wee bit less if maybe not at all.. just to balance the equation out…
i just found it interesting.. i mean lesbos… u have no clue if these women may be gay until u befriend em or get to know em or something… so why is it so easy to tell a gay man from a straight man… 
(that is the second question i guess 
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Khawateen, I can tell a Lesbian from two miles.
Anyone not interested in me is a Lesbian.
Could you be a little more narrow minded about the gestures? There are Gays who are more Macho than Machoists of men. Alexander the Great was Gay. People should never be too cognizant of their gestures. What comes naturally should come naturally, and those who make an effort to be un-natural look more stupid than they think.
gays should be punished..preferrable stoned to death.
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Khawateen, I can tell a Lesbian from two miles.
Anyone not interested in me is a Lesbian.
Could you be a little more narrow minded about the gestures? There are Gays who are more Macho than Machoists of men. Alexander the Great was Gay. People should never be too cognizant of their gestures. What comes naturally should come naturally, and those who make an effort to be un-natural look more stupid than they think. **
I’m talkin generally… not bout the one or 2 odd potatoes … 
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gays should be punished..preferrable stoned to death.
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farmaishi program nahi chalraha ;)
I'm talkin generally.... not bout the one or 2 odd potatoes ....
err... or smooth cucumbers.
Perhaps this will help you to understand why most gay men are effeminate. Most consider themselves as ~Women, who are locked inside a man's body~
and dont forget the stereotypical lesbian: Dominant, short hair, wears drab clothing..bears resemblence to men.
Sometimes its hard to say but one can tell if you pay closer attention.
aMIGo, ..... God is the judge, He is the ONLY judge.
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Oh but some gay men are SO cute! 
and SO sensitive! I know this arab guy who’s gay, he’s come out for everyone but his parents, but that’s another topic. He’s so freaking sweet, but of course he had to be gay.
Speaking of arab guys, there is this reallly cute one in one of my classes and luckily he’s not gay
but of course he had to be christian.
what was the topic again.. erm. umm. I think if you saw him you’d forget about your gay thread too grins
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Don, so it's ok to pass judgement and condemn people to stoning to death. Apparantly the Moderator, who is probably a 17 year old know it all, finds it perfectly acceptable to spew vicious hate but unacceptable to challenge that disgusting point of view.
HA!! And you people call this a "FORUM". Grow up Don.
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Khawateen, I can tell a Lesbian from two miles.
Anyone not interested in me is a Lesbian.
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forget about those women, talk about yourself,
if that is the rule you wrote in your diary, then you must show interest in every woman you see, else you will be considered as a GAY by them ofcourse , ever thought ? ;)
aahmad.... if you disagree with another's point of view, you should counter it in a responsible and intelligent manner. Name-calling other members always degenerates the argument to a farce, which will result in the thread being closed. The aim is to keep the thread on track and provide all of you an avenue to express your opinion and have a fruitful discussion. This is what moderation is all about.
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i agree with you, i even read this in a article a while back, the woman was doing an interview of this guy, whose 6’2/3 or somthing hes incredible good looking and hes the most sensitive person in the world and guess what? he shares a cabin in the wood with a beefy guy called chuck
how typical???
this is like the third FRICKIN time these stupid college computers !!!!!!! ARGHGHG somebody should resort to the old fashioned method of kicking them
not all gay men act girlish, they can be extremely impressive, masculine, tall, strong and still be homo. Same is true for lesbians. You can't always tell their orientation.
The problem is more that we want to beleive that the gras is greener on on the other side.
ok so its established why gay men act so…
second question would be… why one party has to be the frail sensitive kind whilst the other partner alll..akh thoo .. spit spit.. fart.. shift the chest muscle a bit… fix his jewels… … maybe i haven’t come across a couple that have both been masculine… all the ones i have come across… one partner has always been the sensitive one whilst the other one has been macho… just like a couple of guppies have already stated.
HAYAA: 
hehe… man dont even get me started on heart matters… 
Can I? (get u started, i mean.)
Well it's the same for lesbians. You always get one hairy butch one - although hang on...you might get two, I dunno.
really now... the lesbos i have met... well they were ure average lookin girls... same were hot ... oh wait.... now that i think bout it... one party was always hotter and more feminine then the other one... :o ya... one was more hotter than her gf... who was more of a tomboy....
so now are they tryin to equalize the equation? if u are to be gay and in a relationship.. u havta balance it out by one person being somewhat a man and the other a woman?