Um no, I never said that. I actually mentioned let’s not think that your sibling is sexually active. It’s not for you to imagine how they DO it. I am simply asking to accept them and keep loving them for who they are. YOU said you would not want to keep a close relationship with someone like that. That sounds pretty homophobic to me. You are the one imagining stuff beyond them just being “gay” They are not going to tell you stories of their gayness so you don’t have to worry about that. Their gay-ness will not rub off on you or your children.