accepting something means you are alright with it. if i find the lifestyle repuslively contrary to my beliefs why should i accept it? there is a difference between contrary and different. gay is not different to me it is something that i believe is immoral, as immoral as rape. would i befriend someone who was a vocal rapist? no. can i absolutely guarantee that anyone i befriend doesnt have any skeletons in the closet ? no i cant. as for what you said sara hate the sin not the sinner ,there is another one a man in known by the company he keeps. distancing yourself from some one is not blind hatred it is a matter of principles.