ya disturbing. i think as long as the spouse is muslim, no one these days looks beyond that. his/her practicing status is not very high up in the priority list, as compared to other factors like education, comapatibility, family etc
I wouldn't say this is necessarily true. While I have seen some like that, I've also seen the opposite, where even if a guy has a very good job/income/status, he would still not be considered if he's seen as not being practicing enough. How much you see of either depends a lot on your company/social circle.