I wouldn't marry a religious guy simple because I was never brought up amongst people who are. My perception is that a namazi guy would one day turn around and ask me to wear hijab. Will I do that? No. I would wear a hijab if I want to not because someone asks me to.
just because someone prays namaz doesn't make them a maulvi who's going to throw religion down people's throats.. so having that judgment is like racial profiling in a sense, attaching a label to someone just because of one thing.
(and yeah obviously it's totally wrong to force something like that on anyone, let alone your wife)
So amaizingly what I realized that to some extent, a non virgin spouse is ok than a namazi spouse.
hmm.. I think that a girl would tell herself "ohh he does namaz, so he's going to preach to me and make me uncomfortable..." again, the same sort of profiling that isn't accurate or fair.
its pretty sad that a private thing like namaz attaches a stigma to someone or makes them seem extremist or something.. and as you say, a guy who sleeps around or drinks usually escapes that judgment and is tolerated perhaps? something to think about.