future spouse, being Namazi

Agree!

One have to understand Namaz. Roza all are Huqooq -Ullah (our obligation towards Allah), if one neglect these it would totally on Allah he may forgive at his sole discretion.

But these Huqooq Ul-Ibad (obligation toward others), even Allah says he would not forgive unless the victim forgive. Those peoples actually distracting by Shaitan thiking that due to their prayers, thahjjuds and other nawafils they are free to do whatever they could with peoples.

Sometime peoples are weak and powerless to seek revenge, but rest assure they would be paying for whatever they have done.