future spouse, being Namazi

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@CorruptAngel

Aapko misunderstanding hogayi hai shayad…being a namazi doesn’t neccesarily mean a person will abstain from such acts…I personally know someone who would stand up to do namaz when he was fully drunk(he was a regular drinker) and had molested children(worse than adultery, isn’t it?). Namaz is a important part of our religion but we need to understand that it mostly fulfills huqooq-Allah and not huqooq-ul-ibad especially when the person doesn’t understand the true meaning of his/her religion.

I would love my partner to be a 5 waqt namazi but I couldn’t make this a requirement since I myself don’t pray regularly. However, when I wasn’t married I didn’t think I could settle with someone who isn’t spiritually religious and God fearing…that was my requirement and I also wouldn’t consider a guy who did not respect people who do pray 5 times a day/do hijab. It’s very important for me. I have come across people who don’t respect those who commit to Islam and make fun of them or wouldn’t associate with them…I simply can’t stand a partner like that!

CA i am so there with u

I was the same prior to meeting my husband.. wanted a 5 time namazi.. someone God fearing.. just because thats how i was… but ive realsied there is more to Islam than just namaz… SO MUCH MORE… just because i pray and the husband doesnt, dont make me any better than him.. and it doesnt make him worst than me..

For those of u who have said that when we get judged, Allah wont look at all our other good deeds, if we havent prayed… then how do explain the hadees about the old lady who never prayed but looked after one cat her entire life…? why did her good deed count?

u think that just cus a person prays but doesnt look after his parents or his family, isnt a good husband… he is going to be exempted from any kind of judgement just cus he prays?