Re: Full of advise looser.
Couldn’t agree more
QUOTE=BombShellBabe;10015827]Knight, everyone is entitled to defining success differently based on their definition. People goals are not necessarily to chase higher ranks. Their priorities could be spending a well-balanced life where they don’t need to deal with too much work stress and have enough time for the family or other things that they love… Being extremely rich comes with bad consequences and I have seen it in the family. Some people can’t get out of their situations who are doing least desired jobs because they have tried their best. You can’t compare people with one another because everyone possess different skills. Some people are born smart, some people struggle to become smart, some people can’t comprehend at all, some people have pure bad luck, and others have disabilities.
If you were to ask my definition of success, I’d look up to the person who is higher than me but it is not gonna be the same for my brother and I am Ok with his mentality. We as humanbeings need to learn how to coexist and accept others. Let’s stop acting like animals by degrading those people who has less than us and be thankful to God for what we have… Yes, the lazy people can go really far in life if they don’t procrastinate. My post is not about slackers rather I am discussing the ones who really try hard but couldn’t gain success.
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What is so hard to comprehend when I mentioned physical, professional, financial, social, spiritual and family goals does that not sound as balance, If you are a ski bum/beach surfing bum and you are happy that is success. But if you choose to be a bum and make it everyone elses problem than you are a loser. I personally rejected very lucrative financial offers to be with my children. You need different role models for different facets of your life.