Re: frustrated with everything!
I didn't know other animals other than human beings could type aswell lol well there is no guarantee that an arranged marriage will last either. I think it mainly depends on the people involved and compatibility. As RV said there is so much to consider and I had to think about his situation with his studies etc aswell not just be selfish and start doubting his love just because we couldn't get married straight away because that isn't fair either. Atleast by giving him time and thinking about us I will come to some conclusion, seems like what your saying is that its better to leave behind 2 years and jump into an arranged marriage because that won't make me miserable? If he didn't love me then there would be no reason for him to stay either would there? He wouldn't have told his family and been long gone ages ago. The past has been and present is a struggle but that doesn't mean you throw away everything you feel for each other and decide to live a life of compromise with some stranger. I don't see how that helps!