Re: frustrated with everything!
Yoko,
Your boyfriend knows his family better than you do. There are many things to consider about a marriage....such as career, where you will live, families, etc. Maybe he's waiting for a more suitable time to approach his parents. you don't live with him so you don't know all the details.
And people can change. Often times, a decision that we made so confidently a few years ago....can change a few months later. You might decide to major in medicine two years back and then decide to change your major. Know what I mean? Maybe now that he's completing his education, he's probably thinking of getting settled in his career before proposing. You never know. Decisions are sometimes tentative....prone to change.
Most people have told you to take a break....and for good reasons. Taking a break will allow you to clear your head, relax, and sort out your feelings. Plus it will allow him the chance to "miss you" and think about what he needs to do in his life regarding you.
I will say that I don't have a good feeling about his parents. Are you sure that his parents want you as a daughter-in-law? Or do you think that they might have some reservations about you? Long-distance relationships are tough.
Give him a break. And eventually you will find out that he's either interested in marrying you or he isn't. And if it turns out that he doesn't want to marry you....then it's best to find this out earlier. You deserve someone who is sure about wanting to be with you. You shouldn't settle for anything less than that. Best wishes.