You can’t stop yourself falling in love, but you can normally tell if you’re starting to be drawn to someone of the opposite gender in a way that makes you want to be something other than just friends.
That’s the point where if you have enough self control and aren’t desperate to share your life with someone, that you can cut back on contact with the individual to prevent anything happening.
It happened to me about 2-3 years ago. There was a girl I was friends with, then I realised that there was chemistry developing quickly between me and her.
I then refused to meet her or talk to her or MSN her or phone her or text her or have any kind of contact with her for half a year.
Even after that, I was very careful to not talk to her too much in case anything happened again.
HEY THATS THE WHOLE POINT - Your mere mention and openning up this thread plus
contradicting and not accepting any responces your getting up there is nothing but a attention seeking ploy and arrogance.
What always bugs me is when people open ‘useless threads upon threads’ on daily basis
and the posters are jumping bumping one thread to the other for their own trivial reasons.
Members on other ‘Forums’ are making fun of cafeites, thus my point that there are other things in this Diabolical world of ours beside your ‘Puppy-Love’ or 'neend nahi a rahi",
In other Cultures “your question” is very casual and no big deal is made of it. Unlike you who would open a 'Thread for general Consensus" on GS CAFE,
Give me a break Impluse !
Raindance…if you dont like my threads…simple, dont read them. NO1s putting a gun to your head saying “go and read Impulses threads or reply to them”…U know I NEVER swear…but if I was the type that did…this post would be full of them.
arrrgg
You can be good friends with the opposite gender. I’ve had many female friends with no problems. However I find it is females who start to develop feelings more than the guys when you get closer and its really down to us guys to draw the line if we sense this happening - slowly wean off contact to avoid hurting the other party. Draw the line and don’t get too close or personal.
In cases when you start to feel the chemistry developing, either you develop the relationship if the feeling is mutual, or if there is no reciprocal feeling, try to avoid contact at all costs. Theres nothing worse and hurtful than wanting someone you can’t have
thers always a point in ur relationship where u do start liking ur friend. whether it be for a couple hours…a day..a month..a year…u mite realize..“wut am i thinking..he/she is my friend…” wutever…but u always fall for ur friend…doesnt mean u fall in love with them. its a crush..most the time, sometimes even love. n i think it happns to everyone. doesnt mean u shouldnt have guy/girl friends at all.
some one got to put a cart to the mule. right?
I never said I don’t like you or your threads. (although they do qualify as a page from mentaly disturbed person’s dairy)
Its my opinion. No one said its going to be right up your ally each time you open a thread complaining about your little ‘kiddy stuff’
You should have gotten used to it by now.
Hay,its a cruel world out there kiddo,appreciate all you have in life.
Ps; If you don’t know the difference between Freind & Lovers then god bless you in your coming of age. :k:
whatever. ur just a typical british/american/canadian brought up guy…and hence it explains the above. grow up urself mommys little boy :halo: people like u …I call them ABCDS (or CBCDS in ur case)…
are you the type that wants to spend his whole life on his own?
no offence 2 anyone 
:k: