this is something that really confuses me and I want to get it sorted once and for all
Is it true that a guy and girl can never be JUST friends?
So assuming some1 doesnt want to get hurt, and hence not fall into the risk of falling in love with a close friend of the opposite sex…does that mean they shouldnt have friends of the opposite sex?
Being as we FALL in love and dont intend to…should we try to avoid that situation happening? If we dont avoid it, maybe we may end up falling in love witha close friend but they dont feel the same way. hence u will loose a friend as well as some1 u loved…=double the hurt.
so what should be done? avoid talking to the opposite sex altogether…OR is a good solution to get things clear with them (i.e. ask that person beforehand what will happen if they do fall in love?) right at the beginning?
u r probably confused by the above :halo: I tried to ask it in the best way I can think of
should we not have the opposite gender friends at all?
should we risk it and end up getting hurt?
should we get things cleared at the beginning…i.e. what would happen if one does fall in love with the other (either way)…should they both give reassurances that if one day that does happen, they wont let each other down ?
too seroius for me… i haven’t thought abt dis kinda stuff !!! sochta hoon 
