Re: Friends and their reputation
It reminds me of the part of the Quran where God tells us that there’s some people that have the signs in front of them but it falls on deaf ears. You do your fardh as a Muslim but that’s it. I found myself being a “pity friend” and it was miserable. I was talking to her because no one was and I was worried bout her, but her lifestyle and choices (poor decisions) were stressing ME out. So I had to let go. We used to text every day but now I only hear from her if she thinks she’s pregnant (happens more often than I’d like to think).
Normally I would advise this but after a point, there’s no sharam or lihaaz left. My friend had her mother WALK IN ON her and her hindu bf doing the nasty at her house…was almost thrown out of the house but did she learn her lesson? nope. Instead, it completely took away any sharam or pardah and now she does what she wants without any fear of her parents or their reputation. When people cross the line and go SO FAR, there’s very little chance of returning unless God intervenes and guides them.