If the guy is a super-woo-er, is that a reason to suspect he is phony and giving every girl lines ?
How do you know he is sincere and not just talking? Words are cheap.
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Not necessarily.
Assuming you and the guy have already met in person, I’d say the next step is introduction of the parents/families. We can get the GS men to chime in but I don’t think any guy (especially desi) would get his parents involved if he’s not serious about the girl.
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Wait for presents? 
j/k
You’ll (hopefully) become more sure as you get to know him better.. and agree with Paheli that a desi guy would prob not risk getting his parents involved if he wasn’t serious..
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Friendly is okay. Romantic is phony.
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And friendly+romantic is gay.
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If he’s not willing to meet your parents and forcing you into a relationship with no strings attached knowing full well what you’re looking for is the opposite then he’s a phony otherwise eh that’s just his personality. You’re the one who has to figure out whether you can tolerate his mannerisms.
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No, let’s say everything else is fine. He’s telling his parents, meeting you, etc. None of those red flags.
Just he is a super deewana.
He’s a musician to put it in perspective, dunno if this is a trait of people with musical talents that they tend to live in la-la land in their heads?
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My friend’s husband was like that before marriage. I dunno if he is still like that. Btw they r happily married with a kid MA
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Don’t be so insecure.
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If everything else is going well then just enjoy the wooing PCG!!!
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Would ur parents approve? Factor that in as well.
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Typical female mind trying to figure out stuff, no offense
I would say if he’s nice and has some cute dreams or likes to express his self in more romantic ways and according to you there are no red flags.
Let him live please, if you’re a deep thinker and a person who likes to live in the sea of thoughts not everybody is like that or that mature in other words. Some people are pretty basic and open up very easily and you should always treasure that because at the end of the day that’s what every one seeks in their life partner at the end of the day. A person who’s weird enough to keep things interesting and romance can be a way as well.
He’s already got that so don’t ask him to change or anything and every guy’s not phony or a loser if he’s romantic it’s just some men like to talk more about romance and some don’t.
This world would be a better place if we’d allow others to fully express and not judge every time we meet them or talk to them.
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Lots of guys are super romantic before marriage. My friend met a guy through a marriage website. They had only exchanged pics and on the first phone call ( no meeting) he decided to marry her. It’s been nine years and Ma Sha Allah he is still extremely romantic. My own husband was the super wooer before marriage.
Make sure that the guy has at least seen pics and knows that you are looking at anything with possible long term commitment ( marriage ) in mind only. I am guessing both are true in your case. If so, then wait and see IA and trust Allah. If he takes too long then you would know he is stringing you along but a person can be genuine too and just be super into you.
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Oh so Zayn Malik left One Direction because of you !!!
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Yes if he is friendly and romantic it’s bad news. Look for a standoffish dude who seems to have no romantic side.
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So you saying she should go for a guy who isn’t friendly and nice to her? Do you know most of the psychos have one attribute in common they are “STANDOFFISH”. In other words you’re suggesting her to make a guy who isn’t in to her at all fall in love with her, lol
In my humble opinion there are a lot of guys who play real cool and don’t act or talk about romantic stuff because they’re aware of “YOUR THIS PHILOSOPHY”. You think guys are stupid 
If he is trying anything physical with you without your consent or trying to enter your personal space then it’s a “RED FLAG” otherwise don’t worry and spend as much time as you can with him and get to know him more.
Sorry about my caps
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yes. you need be worrying about his phoniness specially if he is from haiderbad.
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He was being sarcastic
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PCG .every guy is both. so dot be judgemental
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Tu nay deewana banaya to main deewana bana
Ab mujhay hosh ki dunya main tamasha na bana