If they don’t text you/sweet talk you - they’re arrogant, not showing any interest, God knows what else
If they do text you/sweet talk you - Words are cheap, they are desperado, phony and God knows what else.
I don’t think you know yourself what you exactly want and maybe that’s why you are not able to find the right guy, cause you’re just fishing without knowing which fish you want.
I’ve heard be wary of the guy who is jaldbaaz or who comes on too strong and the guy who is wishy washy. Recently a friend of mine went through a breakup where the guy fizzled out just as fast as he had rushed in with the romantic behavior and future talk about how many kids they’ll have etc etc. I feel there is some truth to the saying. Only time will tell how sincere and compatible the guy is, but it’s good to be on your guard (as in guard ur heart) while also keeping an open mind toward him. And it’s good to factor in family approval as well.