Friend is having trouble with her fiancee (very long)

[Paheli00]

Re: Friend is having trouble with her fiancee (very long)

@jalebi121

**1) In this time (september), i found out something terrible…that Sara is having an affair with a white guy she met from work.

2. I feel so bad…he has no idea that Sara is not even living at home

3. I feel like we are cheating an innocent guy. And he is not having any relationships bc he is waiting for marriage**.

Let’s get some FACTS cleared up:

1. How exactly did you find out that she’s having an affair with the whilte guy? What exactly did you see or hear that made you believe that beyond a doubt, she’s sexually involved with the white guy?

2. If Amir and his family does not know that Sara has moved out of the parents house…do you not think Sara’s parents are also hiding the truth from his family? After all…isn’t Sara’s dad good friends with Amir’s dad? Doesn’t Sara’s parents…especially the dad…also have a responsiblity of being honest with Amir’s family? Do you have any interest in confronting her parents regarding why they are hiding this fact from Amir?

3. How well do you personally know Amir? How do you know for a fact that he’s innocent and is not involved with any other girls? Or are you ASSUMING that he’s innocent just b/c you haven’t seen the evidence. After all…until you found out whatever you found out regarding Sarah…you also believed Sara was “innocent” too right?