So friend is been married to a girl who wears hijab, out side of the house.
She prays and every thing.
Now this ramazan my fiend grew beard, and all of a sudden she has issues with it!!
She thinks he looks too religious.
She want him to keep trimmed beard if he must(do you believe this?)
Argument was "your big beard with no moustache would be me(wife) wearing shuttlecock burqa.
This beard is uncalled for.
Hijab equals to nice trim beard."
What the hell… right ?
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I also would like to know the reason :)
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The guy needs to decide whats less drama. His wife nagging him or the beard.
Friend in trouble again with wife.
Shes jus being an ***
Simples
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I belive wife iz like a queen. Do whatever ur wife want . I hold hijab girlz in high regards. Remembr bread iz sunna ,its not farz . If ur wife want clean shape, listen to her ,make her feel happy. Respect for hijab girlz.
Friend in trouble again with wife.
Its a two way street! Doesn't just work one way.
If he told her to take off the hijab would she it? Well she probably shouldn't because her hijab is between her and god. Couldn't the same be said for his beard?
Did he discuss with her before decided to grow beard? If all of a sudden he is going from clean shave to full length beard then it's a big change and her concerns are probably not over beard but this all of a sudden unpredictability.
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^boss beard does not grow all of a sudden.
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As long as he is not the extremist type, than its b/w him and his boss.. and God as well.
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*boss =wife for those who didn’t get it :hinna:
What's it got to do with her? It's Ramadan, maybe she should concentrate on her amal, not others
it’s only 10th day of Ramadan. How big of a beard did he grow 10 days that she is feeling concerned
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and he came and complained to you. tell his wife about this, she will shave his head too. :D
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I find it more strange that he told his friend and this friend(OP) came on this forum to talk about his friend wife's issue about her husbands beard.
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^ welcome to life1.
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You find it strange because a ''man'' shared his problem with his friend......or you think its bad to talk about issues to friends and ultimately posted on internets
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butt sahib.. this isn't internet.. this life1. we do that here.
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all the time.
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I was talking to threedower
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Maybe it is a source of discomfort when they are intimate.
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There is something to be said about attraction to which she has an Islamic right. If we want to bring in God into all this.
You should tell him to tell his wife that she is welcome to grow out any of her hair as well. :) we will see how long his beard lasts.
Asking him to trim it is not a big deal. She is not asking much. Islam says a beard is sunnah, which simply means that the Prophet did it or liked it and this brings you closer to your faith. It's not Farz! And the shape and style is not dictated by God or the Prophet in fact, so if she suggests trimming, he should do it for her. Because to give your marriage attention IS Farz.
Pehle Quran par Le. Then we wouldn't have these issues. People would have common sense.