Sometimes there are bigger causes I had to stop living for myself after the birth of our children, I get up at 6 am make breakfast for lil Harris, pack lunch for the eldest, go to the lake stay there waiting for Harris to finish practice till 9.30, do some groceries maybe make some dinner and go to work. most of my days are 15 hrs long. My party days, hanging at the gym going to clubs is all over but I feel it was a great trade off.