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^sure. apni gaoan wali mairee taraf bhaij daina.........
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chick, his wives live only in his head…can’t you tell, hes really a 15 year old boy who skipped science class today…
carry on with your life story petal…i want to know more…
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I agree with MM. Men with multiple wives won't have time to do istinja properly, let alone chatting on a BB.
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^ ok smartasses.......find a proper loophole in that story........."cant u tell"" n not enuff time aint enuff...........from my experience certain pathan men are quite capable of this.......its a story only cuz nobody spills everything out in one go.........but even then its not enuff.....
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Ok stop fighting my lil firecrackers. I still have a spot for two more wives. I can accomodate both of you. I have one house being constructed and which one you likes to go camping?
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chick there aint a loophole as the story is not real…hes a teenage boy not a man.
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It is very hard to live like I do. I mean sometimes I miss my kids in Pakistan. You know I only get to see them once a year for two weeks. Well enough of my 2 wives lets hear it from you.
GhuLail I understand that you don't approve, but what if he does and informs you that he's done it and let's get over it? Would you prefer to live in the same house? or move out? or have your competition live somewhere else? unless ofcourse he's in a bind like me i.e two countries.
What would you do seriously. I mean people can't think of divorce on the whim there are other issues that surround marriages like kids, sometimes families are involved (like my case with pk wife). Obviously you would be heart broken but would you take it as a defeat? Or look forward to it as competition? Obviously you would be jeealous but would you harm her or harm her kids or look down upon her kids?
Missy you might be a little two young to answer this since I take that you are not married. I think the only thing you came close to marrying was Ken and Barbie, then again on second thought take a stab at em if you would like.
What about the rest of you gals?
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i resent that comment petal, take it back, i don’t care what Ken told you, but i rejected him first 
P.S i love the way you just know that i will read and reply to your posts, its really cute of you chick.
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Ofcourse you love the way I know. Meh to aap ki dil ki dharkan hunh :D. Now Missy care to answer me questions me lil dolly.
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dil ke dharkan? chick i dont have a heart so you can take that illusion right out of your head, anyway, you said you didnt want to know my opinion so i refuse to comment. Ask one of your wives or better still, ask google.
good luck petal. 
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I was a bit late and didnt want to edit my post but I figured it out that you may not have a heart nor a brain (but thats normal in your case). How could you, if your parents select the bukra for you.;)
P.S I did give you the option to reply to my post, but that requires logic, reasoning in order for you to comprehend plus that work is done by brain that you lack. My lil butterfly.
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i’ll make his life completely miserable if there r strings attaced in the situation like financial probs…otherwise i’ll divorce him straightforward…he can then take care fo the kids, mine n hers…in fact if she is newly married, the poor thing will not be able to make her own babies becoz of the responsibilty…
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I think these are your emotions not your noggin speaking. You will leave your kids? just like that some mother you are. I like that you cal your soukan poor thing (so you do feel for her). It's funny that you emotions towards your competition but you will dump your kids.
I guess yeh din bhe dekhne tha keh ma bhi kafi zalim hota hey. Pardon I am a pathan so cant transliterate urdu.
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maa waah sirf sab kuch nahin hota…baap bhi koi chiz hoti…men can raise kids quite well too…if u can marry multiple wives, n tolerate thier nakhras…u cant take care of yr own flesh n blood?..a womans a mother later,she is a human being first…n thats the message i intend to send out to my kids…in fact it migt be a lot of fun…u can raise the kids, but the kids will all turn out against u…
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No GhuLail sweetie, these are your emotions talking, You are right that men are capable of raising kids and actually they do a better job than most women. You should think about what I asked maybe discuss it with your hubby and then try to answer the questions posed.I know that this won't happen to you or for that matter any guppan (you fiesty lil thangs). But one should talk these things out. I was surprised how supportive my American wife was after she stabbed me a few times with a steak knive. She still refuses to meet her counterpart, but I am working on it. I'd rather that they live together this way the uneducated pathani in kaka-khel will learn a few things.
P.S I you give up custody of your kids and it is a nasty divorce maybe the kids will trun against you since you dumped them.:)
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Bachey Do (2) Hee Achey Or Biwiya Char (4)
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Hmmm....I didn't see the remainder part of this thread...I'm beginning to think you're really not joking Verizon.
If you are, you're quite pathetic making up such a long story up, but khair, the internet is full of those, so that wouldn't surprise me.
After seeing the details you've provided of why you have 2 wives, and the conditions you're going thru...I'm quite sorry for you.
However, if I was the american wife, I'd frankly divorce you. In a heartbeat. And I'd take the kids with me. You know why? Because polygamy is not permitted in the USA. I'd taperecord you admitting that you have taken a second wife. I'd fly my butt out to Pakistan and get this girl to admit it. I'd get all the proof that is necessary AND then take you to court.
If you knew you were engaged to this woman at such a young age, then your decision to marry a woman in the first place whilst being engaged was a mistake that you made (or so I would see it if I were this USA wife).
And you know what? Yeah, you might think this is emotions speaking. But the minute I find out what your family is like...that they're the type that would kill you if you didn't marry this woman, I would not want my children having that kind of family contact or influence.
I would not feel guilty about a divorce in a situation like that ever. For, I would expect to be informed of this kind of a situation BEFORE any marriage takes place between me and my hubby. So that I can avert marrying a guy faced with that kind of problem, and avert having kids born into that kind of situation. And if I'm not informed of it, and I go ahead and marry, and then find out that my husband is being forced to marry a woman of his village and in his family, then yeah - I feel terribly for him that he's going thru such a mess. But you know what? I'd offer to hide him and protect him from his Pakistani family as well. If he didn't want to take that option and still felt obligated to marry the Pakistani woman, then I'd make the decision of leaving. Sucks to be him, but I'd be more concerned with protecting my own children.
And frankly, there is no such thing as "Force". You can say you were forced to marry a second. (First off, that's not even jaahiz in Islam, and such a marriage is not considered binding in Islam. So you could say that you really only have one wife, in the eyes of God...but then again, I'm not God. That would be scholarly work talking, and I'm not going to say if its true or not. ) But you really were not forced. Like I said, you could have sought protection from the US govt. You could have made an international case out of this. You could have done a lot. Even though at the time it probably doesn't seem possible. No one has the right to "force" you to get married, and at least you could have had the USA protection on that.
I'm sorry you have to go through what you're going through. It seems like you're quite miserable. You've got one hell of a long safar ahead of you, taking care of 7 kids. I hope God gives you strength and puts your heart in the right place.
As for claims that you treat both of your wives equally, a bias for one over the other is very evident in your posts. No man will ever treat his wives equally. Its a blissful dream, that is all.
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Oh and I’m really glad that your first wife at least has the intelligence to burn a hole thru your wallet. I hope she takes you for a real ride. :k:
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However, if I was the american wife, I'd frankly divorce you. In a heartbeat. And I'd take the kids with me.
Talk about insecurity. If you were a pakistani you wouldn't, why only Americans divorce or are you showing your double standards?
I'd fly my butt out to Pakistan and get this girl to admit it. I'd get all the proof that is necessary AND then take you to court.
It's not that easy I come from tribal areas, Pakistanis are not allowed let alone an American.
I can go on copying and pasting and replying tit for tat to your thread (its a long post), but it appears that women (the reason for the thread) are jealous creatures they want, they want, and they want it all for themselves.
You bring up divorce as if it is a walk in the park, PCG I have been divorced twice as well and it ain't as easy as it sounds (forget about $500 Bodega sign touting same day divorce), specially when you are talking cross border divorces (In my case Hong Kong, UK).
It's not that bad as you are portraying it about my family. We are good people very traditional and strong in tribal customs. My American part agrees with you but on the same token my Pathan part is not wrong either. You forget that both my wives are overall happy. The American every now and then gets sad, but you know what it always co-incides with her PMS. As far as the Pathani is concerned I feel bad that I only see her for 2 weeks in a year, but she understands that it is for the good of our kids. I mean all my 7 kids have 7-11s and 11 cabs that they will inherit at age 22 aftertheir college. All their college tuitions (including boarding and books) are already paid in full, I am not talking IV league but fees for top 20 colleges or Univ in US or UK (whichever they prefer).
You sound very mean and selfish however my wives know that I am good provider and when women see a good provider they do tend to forget the dark side. Both my wives don't work, they are stay at home mom's. How many Pakistanis will buy their American wives a BMW X5 for christmas and send them to Bora Bora for their Birthday? OR My Pathani wive (minus the coach hand bag)has three houses built for her in Peshawar in a posh neighborhood (unfortunately she cant even adjust in peshawar).
Over all my wives are happy, don't feel bad for me, I am happy I am seriously looking for a third chickie to keep in Islamabad as soon as my house is built.
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Can someone open the windows here? Because the room is filling up with bull crap.