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^^ Hey I just responded to your post. Thasssh alll.
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**Talk about insecurity. If you were a pakistani you wouldn’t, why only Americans divorce or are you showing your double standards? **
Huh? I’m Pakistani-American. If I was pure White American, or African American, or pure Pakistani, it makes no friggin’ difference. I’m still the same person, and I do believe that a woman should excercize her right of divorce if she’s married to an imbecile.
It’s not that easy I come from tribal areas, Pakistanis are not allowed let alone an American.
Doesn’t matter babyjaan, I’d make an international issue out of it. Regardless, I’d get my divorce.
**I can go on copying and pasting and replying tit for tat to your thread (its a long post), **
BUT you don’t have the guts. nods I know.
but it appears that women (the reason for the thread) are jealous creatures they want, they want, and they want it all for themselves.
The expectation that their husband should stay monogamous and loyal is definitely not a result of jealousy and using the phrase “they want it all for themselves” shows a definite lack of maturity. If you really had 2 wives, I doubt that you would use a phrase like that. Also, you speak of how these wives don’t really have a problem (see below), so what tells you that they want you all for themselves. Somewhere in this bull story, you are lying. Which tells me the whole story is a lie.
You bring up divorce as if it is a walk in the park, PCG I have been divorced twice as well and it ain’t as easy as it sounds (forget about $500 Bodega sign touting same day divorce), specially when you are talking cross border divorces (In my case Hong Kong, UK).
I never said divorce is easy. That is why it is to be saved only in situations where one spouse really hurts the other and thus alters the relationship such that it can’t ever be healthy onwards, and also affects the children negatively. I would rather divorce and let my kids know that their father comes from such a tribal culture and he chose to obey his tribal culture over doing what was right and that is why I left. Children also grow up to be adults, and they can form their own opinions as to whether the divorce was justified or not.
And where the hell does Hong Kong come in? That just shows even more that you’re making up a story - you cant keep your facts straight.
It’s not that bad as you are portraying it about my family. We are good people very traditional and strong in tribal customs. My American part agrees with you but on the same token my Pathan part is not wrong either. You forget that both my wives are overall happy. The American every now and then gets sad, but you know what it always co-incides with her PMS. As far as the Pathani is concerned I feel bad that I only see her for 2 weeks in a year, but she understands that it is for the good of our kids.
So what makes you think that women “want it all for themselves”? It sounds like they’re docile in your description here. Which I doubt would be the situation, really.
** I mean all my 7 kids have 7-11s and 11 cabs that they will inherit at age 22 aftertheir college. All their college tuitions (including boarding and books) are already paid in full, I am not talking IV league but fees for top 20 colleges or Univ in US or UK (whichever they prefer).**
And you’re paying for this thru your 7-11’s and cabs? Yeah, I know people that have busted their behinds working for a living in the USA, and they certainly don’t have this much money. And if you did have that money, you’d be off earning it, not wasting your time on Gupshup. :k:
Keep the lies coming, kiddo.
You sound very mean and selfish
I want my husband to have some respect for the woman he marries. He wouldn’t want his sister treated in such a way, so why should he do such things to his wife? There are plenty of men who believe in monogamy or at least are wise enough to know not to do something wrong because of family pressure, and are strong enough to resist the family pressure.
I don’t dig wussies.
** however my wives know that I am good provider and when women see a good provider they do tend to forget the dark side. Both my wives don’t work, they are stay at home mom’s. How many Pakistanis will buy their American wives a BMW X5 for christmas and send them to Bora Bora for their Birthday? OR My Pathani wive (minus the coach hand bag)has three houses built for her in Peshawar in a posh neighborhood (unfortunately she cant even adjust in peshawar). **
Again, I doubt that an internet junkie has this much money to blow around. Bora Bora? Yeah right.
Over all my wives are happy, don’t feel bad for me, I am happy I am seriously looking for a third chickie to keep in Islamabad as soon as my house is built.
Oh, so you’re into pathetic desperate loserville women? Wow, that is a new low.
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If my hubby falls in love w/ someone else and wants to marry her, that would automatically tell me that he has fallen out of love with me. If there is no love in a marriage then there is no marriage. I cannot live on just compromises, so yeah he'll get the boot.