^^ So nilu was it jealousy or competition that made you said that?
Verizon just out of curiosity chick, would you ever share your wife with another man if it were permissable in Islam for a woman to have 4 husbands?
Btw are you considering a second wife?
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okay okay dont make me feel bad........i wont strangle all of em........i'll 'threaten' to strangle only his fav daughter........n u get me wrong abt most women think it wont happen until it does thingy.......theres something called hypervigilance and tight control which makes sure it doesnt happen, not te other way round.... thinking he is too shareef n stuff.......as for the sahailiyan, my social lifes not going to be that f*kked up that i need a sautan to play pattay wid in the same house!.......playng cards is anyways for 60-yr-olds anemic-white women with rheumatoid arthritis in their joints, still weaning on Austen and Wilde and the likes.....so no thanks.
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this is a work of art
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Two wifes is not about sharing and thats one of my points women are possessive and jealous in nature.
As far as two wives why not. The more the merrier.
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char wives kam hai.....limit nahee honee chaheye
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^^You are right. Plus what if the husband forget sthat he has 4 and marries a 5th by mistake. What is he supposed to do? I mean it's not a can of Pepsi that you chuck away.
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Of course its about sharing, you share your time, thoughts, love (if you have any) and most importantly your life. How can you possibly think that a marriage with two or more people would not be about sharing?!
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Well good morning doll. Nice to see you up and about this fine dandy mornin'. I hear you about sharing. What I meant was what you had posted initially (let me dig it up)
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* Originally post by: Miss_Mohabat*Verizon just out of curiosity chick, would you ever share your wife with another man if it were permissable in Islam for a woman to have 4 husbands
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Here sharing to me is like sharing a pencil or a pen. Women are possessive, greedy and jealous in nature (I mean you cant change nature). So it is obvious that you would rather possess you man and not share. Now if it were permissible in Islam to share which i think is wrong wording. You should have wrote "were it permissible in Islam to have multiple husbands". Ok so with the change wording, my response would be "sure no problem here how many do you need my good man (to the new husband), tell you what smoke this turkish water pipe let me get my picture album and we'll both pick a woman from my harem for you".
Also I believe (cant speak for other girlie-men)in leasing not financing , while I am responsible for wear and tear I don't own, compared to women that finance and own.
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Good morning to you too petal, although its not quite so dandy where i am and its now the afternoon.
I think your understanding of the word “sharing” is somewhat limited to my understanding of the word. when i used it in my original question i was referring to sharing a wife, a life partner, not stationary chick. I dont know where you live but in the UK there is a considerable amount of difference between a wife and a pencil. I’m not so good with this written communication, im more of a talker than typer, but i’l try once more as im no quitter!!
Its not a question of being jealous or possessive by nature as these attributes can be applied to some men aswell (new year=less generalising!). If im to take any of your comments seriously, when i say share i mean in the sense of sharing yourself emotionally and psychologicaly. How will you share these with all of your wives? it is not possible for any person to stay the same or be the same person with everyother person. we change our style of communicating and sometimes even our personalities when dealing with different people, basically its not possible to be the same person with everybody (you have to excuse my grammer and articulation here, im trying to write a 2000 word essay at the same time).
iv always been told that a man may only marry again if he can and will treat each wife equally. Having said this and what iv tried ever so pathetically to explain above, how will you treat your wives equally and share yourself between them?
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Lolz i think more jealousy.
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I just hi-lighted that to make my point that all women are Verizon enabled walkie-talkies. Onto your other gripe.
I hear you on sharing emotionally and pyschologically. Well darling if a man is going to go and get another lolita for himself, obviously the love and emotions are going to wither on both ends. I mean the guy obviously doesn’t give shyiT$ about his present spouse that he goes and gets another chickie. So one(the original squaw, wifey 1) will not have emotions for a SOB that wants to engage in polygamy. Same can be applied to men (using your multiple husband example).
BTW I am surprised that no one has commented on the other reason for multiple wives. In western cultures where multiple wives are not allowed divorce rates are higher (I am no subject matter expert and cannot back this statistically), compared to cultures where polygamy is allowed. Multiple wives is also a sign of a good man that he doesn’t want the woman to incur hardships if he would have divorced her before marrying another.
So there you have it my darling walkie talkie, and admit it; if I am a petal on a flower, then you are a butterfly that is attracted to m…y posts:D
more to follow..
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sorry chick i dont get the whole “walkie talkie” thing…i dont know what “Verizon” is other than its your gupshup name. i find it really interesting how you can ask such a question (your original one) without applying it to yourself, as in i think you would never marry again and clearly 1 wife is more than enough for you. Why would want to know something you yourself do not believe in?
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When i've joked about it to my husband ( must be like the only wife to say 'go get married again') he fumes. Absolutely hates the fact i can even mention another woman LOL LOL
I don't know how i'd react if he did have another wife. I guess i could hack it. The only thing i couldn't tolerate is if she was a biatch. I can do a nice second wife but if she was all bitchy n stuff...well then that would make things a little different.
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You will come to know what Verizon is in due time. You said more of a talker and hence the walkie talkie.
Would I marry again. HELL YEAH. My present wife (the one in US) is scared to move to Utah, just because the polygamy laws are not enforced sternly. My other walkie-talkie in Kaka-Khel doesn't care as long as I show up every yr and the check shows up every month. I believe in sharing. So I have two women and I share my love equally to both of them. Once I build my house in a big city in Pakistan I am going to have another chickie bringing the total to three and still be able to share me with them.
Disco Duck: You my kind of woman. I have great deal of respect for women folk like you ma'am.
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petal, your full of BS…no way do you have more than 1 wife and no way do i for 1 second believe that you would marry again…u may be that naive but im not. 
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well my wife in US just likes to shop till she drops. As long as the magnetic strip on the credit card functions she is OK, it's when the card stops working (she thinks we ran out of money OR that I stopped the card I am running back home) due to worn out strip she panics. The one in Kaka khel is a villager, she cant even speak english or Urdu. She is not fit to be introduced to a western culture yet. I don't care whether you believe it or not. We are tribal people and have to uphold our honor. See the wifey back home was given to me when I was 4 yrs old (you know that mungta thingy). I had two options when I grew up and the time came, either be killed by her uncles or get married, I want to live so I chose the latter. It's actually the original hump, once you get over it, it's the same. I am now seriously thinking about my house (its almost done), so it s time for another pay-once-free for lifetime-maid.
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your a funny little man...please continue your life story...its very captivating and im intrigued..by the way how many children do you have with each wife?...i remember you mentioning a son in one of your previous threads...which wife does he live with? do your children have sleep overers with their different mothers?
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No silly butterfly. One is in Pak and the other in U.S. I have total of 7 kids, 3 from the U.S one and 4 from Kaka-Khel. My oldest one has met his half brothers and sisters in the village back-home. He went with me to Pakistan this year. I must say he is very confused, he still is quite perplexed over the concept of two mothers (the one that obviously can't communicate due to lack of language skills), but he had a good time. While there he learnt to shoot guns, RPG's and can spit like a pathan. But he is still confused over two mothers. My wife in U.S knows about my other wife ( i think thats why she shops too much to bury her sorrows). I am sure she is sad, but I am sure in the hell glad to be alive and not dead over some marriage.