Re: Four Marriages for women!!!
He was and is the perfect muslim. He is what we muslims should aspire to be.
That’s not to say he wasn’t human.
He felt love, compassion, grief, annoyance just the same as anyone else. (The annoyance comment refers to the Surah Abbasa Watawala ie He frowned and turned away).
We have to remember though that the Prophet’s marriages were for reasons which would help Islam to expand and grow.
And he was also the best example of a husband to his wives.
I can’t find the exact hadiths and I don’t really want to paraphrase them.
Basically there is a hadith where the Prophet (pbuh) asks Allah for forgiveness if he shows more affection towards one of his wives than the others, he was said to be referring to Aisha (ra).
There is also a hadith which says that the Prophet (pbuh) said that the best among men was the one who was the best to his wife and he (rasulallah) was the best among men towards his wives.
He was the best in Perfection in worshipping Allah (swt). And what better perfection can there be?
If you are perfect in that aspect then inshallah you become better and nearer perfection in every aspect of life.
He had the most perfect character and the most perfect values.
Just wondering: Is this important for you? That the Prophet (pbuh) was not perfect? I believe he was perfect. And I was not implying otherwise, Astaghfirullah. He is my role model inshallah, there couldn’t be any better in my eyes.