Re: Forgiving Parents
It is such a generalization. Refer to post # 4 for reference.
If you have a father , a brother and other men in your life , what do you think about them ? Do they have control over their tongues ? If they do then your generalization loses its air. If they do not still there must be some men in your life who would have control on their tongues. No ?
@OP , I will forgive my parents no matter what. They are the reason I exist , they brought me into this world , nurtured me , raised me , put up with my tantrums , they were there when I was sick , hungry , unable to walk. They were there when I could not talk the talk and I could not walk the walk, they taught me all that.
They sacrificed a lot of their own needs and wants and fulfilled mine.
What if they behaved badly or said bad things to me , I am sure I have behaved badly with them zillions of times and I must have said billions of bad things to them.
Yes may be now is not the time for you to forgive and forget but one day you will need them , you will long for them that is the time when you will forgive and forget , but that might be too late.