Couples in Pakistan (those who live in extended family setups) don’t get much chances to be intimate and whenever they do, it is straight to the dashes (pretty much like race horses out of their gates). It is sad and sorrowful as doing it in a hurry takes the fun out of it. It appears that the only purpose of intimacy is reproduction.
I think warming up is as essential part of exercise as the exercise itself.
Let’s hear your thoughts about it. Please take your time.
It appears that the only purpose of intimacy is reproduction. <
You know, i figure that if for a hell lot of years you’ve gone through so many years of what your’e not allowed and allowed to do (ie not married bla bla),
when the time comes,
and you’re in all liberty to do all that you want with your signif other,
go for it!
Explore things -
inside out.
And i will kill anyone if saying this, somehow makes them think i’m a bad girl.
Even the prophet forbade the “right down to business” mentality. Foreplay is a essential/compulsory part of the intimate act, seen from an islamic point of view. I can post references if desired.
Kohalic, tell me if someone sayz ur bad. I’ll
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Within the boundaries i.e. marriage/nikah one should as in MUST have fun! (seen from an islamic point of view again)
~Survival of the smartest~
I agree Kohali, especially if you wait all your life.
Ahmadi, what do you consider foreplay and what do you consider dashes?
Family Forum is the place to be these days !!
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Family Forum is the place to be these days !!
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So that I see, that you have already turned red.
Roms, whatever u say but you deserve credit for being the flag-bearer of the flood of amorous topics posted in this forum of late under the pretext of "Healthy Discussion".
Good job !!
I guess you need to have a reputation among moderators to get away with it.
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Anything Romaan can do, NYA can do better
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What is it with you guys and sex - u don’t seeem to be able to think beyond it
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@ the patheticness of the post.
Hey, wait a minute guys. Don't try to smell any sort of conniving conspiracy theory in it.
Since the inception of this forum mostly we have talked about is the stuff that covers a lot of common stuff, whether it's divorce, arranged marriages, upbringing of childeren, right age for marriage, etc etc, and people have continued to formulate there posts like they've been for past few centuries, which is fine, nothing wrong with that if they choose, but I do think that what makes you really think is the stuff that's contrversial, tabooed, wrapped under the rug, but still effects, one way or the other, people's lives.
Some people like to talk about it, others don't, but those who do, what's wrong with their talking about it?
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Oh Romaan, grow up man.
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<<<—sadi sobi that makes 4 of us.–<
I’m having trouble getting into my inbox to email dear moderator, I’ll just say it here with all due respect.
Dear moderator, its time to clean up the forum, send the perverts out!!!
Thanks…
Back for some serious and mature responses.
Yeah right!
Yeah right!
Chan ji hun ay post vi ghaib ho gai te pheer na rola paanaaN.....kinni vaari dassaaN hun ay bachpana choR diyo te mature ho jao kuj.....atleast iss forum ich te waDiyaaN waliyaaN gallaaN karo tussi....
Dear Admin,
Is there a possibility to do a combined search, like :
All Forums
Any Date
Users : NYAhmedi, Roman and Chann Mahi
I think it will give the most interesting results.
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I concur. For those who like to believe that such topics are not be to discussed, they are free not to come in here. You can not have it both ways. People know the purpose of this room then why bother coming in here if certain issues rub one the wrong way? But I respect the opinions for that is the Islamic duty of everyone regardless of whether the listener/reader likes it or not.
So, Roman has a very valid point. We tend to talk about all subjects under the sun but not sex.
I think we are mixing two approaches here: one Islamic and one western. Islamic in the sense that we have grown up as Muslims, most of us, and have been taught what is right and what is wrong. Sex is one subject that is considered not a right subject to be discussed “openly”. Those who are more versed in this line of discussion can be more effective then I can so I won’t delve here in more details. The other aspect is Western that has tought us that we have a freedome of speech and right to speak one’s mind.
I am for open discussion with the understanding that such discussion raises ones own personal thoughts inside… and… self-control is they key.
Hey, I am past the 7-year itch… I am on my 15 yr. itch. Just kidding.
I think I am going to step out for something stiff.
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like black coffee with no sugar.
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that is so funny!!!love the sweet sarcasm especially in punjabi.
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**>>>>>Yeah right!
Chan ji hun ay post vi ghaib ho gai te pheer na rola paanaaN.....kinni vaari dassaaN hun ay bachpana choR diyo te mature ho jao kuj.....atleast iss forum ich te waDiyaaN waliyaaN gallaaN karo tussi....**
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Homosepian, Foreplay is a serious matter not something about mazaak....this is even waDDa matter for people who are not that waDDay.
Those who take their appetizer seriously end up enjoying the dessert.